THE THING ABOUT MARRIAGES

THE THING ABOUT MARRIAGES

Marriages are funny. You sometimes hate but deep within you love so much, that your partner is an inseparable almost bodily part of you. Thus the pain of separation, fights is too much. Marriage is a union, of two bodies but actually one soul. So much togetherness, habitually leads to a need for each other that could become infinite. Marriage is holy. The love is there, that need not be told, precisely because it is there. The love is felt as a simple truth and when that is debated, it is hurting.

Strange are marriages. So much joy and sometimes so much pain that feels not like the usual pain but kind of different, personal and deep.

Marriage is an unshakeable trust much beyond any practical miscommunication or problem. Marriage is a point of no return.

Marriage is deep affection, needing and fulfilling acceptance so complete that there is no real tension!!

Marriage is thus, a deep security and happiness. That is why I guess marriages have existed for centuries.

This is the reason marriages actually need space and freedom. Because the prison is already erected, the sweet prison of togetherness. Now with almost that kind of motherly “taken for granted peace”, one needs wings to fly.

Marriage maybe is a second childhood, because by nature man needs company and deep security of needing and being needed.

And of course marriage is that beautiful, deep, innocent physical union that has to happen with powerful magnetic attraction, the deep infinite love needs that solace of being held and one in and out for that bliss that can never ever be measured.

Marriages are such a wonder, two human beings so close, yet apart, pressure to be one and with each other, yet needing and wanting freedom, both co existing, and the subtle adjustments and harmonious dance carried out from experiencing each other , inside and outside….